I am so embarassed…
One thing that I did not anticipate when I decided to become a bookkeeper was the the way shame or embarrassment would be a regular point of conversation with potential (and sometimes even current) clients. I definitely find myself slipping into the role of counselor and advisor in a real and intimate way for clients and "might become" clients. This was surprising at first. But it makes sense because we all hold a lot of weird feelings around money and success and having our shit together.
There is often stammering, blushing, a rush of excuses and explanations. But here's the thing...I have absolutely zero judgment for your current or past financial choices, organization (or lack of), spending habits or the priorities for your time and money. Honestly. I know everything isn't perfect, or you wouldn't have even dropped into my DMs. If you had all your shit together, you probably wouldn't be calling me. And my own situation isn't perfect either. But I can also guarantee that it could be much worse. I also know that you are a rockstar at the tasks that are the heart of your business and bookkeeping is not where your limited energy should be going. Finding the right person to help you now means that you are headed in the right direction. And this non-judgmental safe space will continue when you are a client. Bought jeans at H&M on your business card? No problem, we'll just put that to a draw and I'm sure they make your ass look great! Still paying your internet bill on your personal credit card? Send me the latest bill and we'll get that added with a JE. BUT, you really should move those regular business expenses over though to save yourself some time. I will give you feedback on things that I think will help you be better at what you do, but I won't lecture you or shame you.
I prioritize helping my clients to make sound financial choices for their business, but I fully recognize that we are all human and its not always going to flow perfectly.
So let go of your excuses and tell your money shame to take the day off. Book a consult or hit me up in the messages to talk about getting your business financials (mostly) on track!
